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Like many others I watched the Prince Harry interview on Monday evening, and I have to say … the bloke’s got a point. If I were in his designer shoes and the press and palace officials had printed lies about me and my family, then I’d want to state my point of view as well. Wouldn’t you? However, by stating his case and washing dirty linen in public, Prince H has shattered whatever mystique the royal family had left. We now see them as they really are… with the same jealousies and rifts that are in any ordinary family, but with more money and privilege.
Harry and Meghan were too popular, and the limelight had been stolen from senior royals. According to H and M, palace officials had fed the press derogatory articles so that the public would see them in a less than favourable light, with the press believing the information they had been given because it had come directly from Buckingham Palace. They back this statement up with glowing press articles that the palace had put out about Kate, but less kind articles concerning Meghan when the two women were doing the exact same thing, for instance cradling their pregnancy bumps.
I don’t see Harry as a ‘ginger whinger’, as many people do. In my opinion he is protecting the reputation of himself and his wife, which any husband would want to do. However, by setting the record straight and taking all the rotten eggs out of the basket, he has alienated the very people that he wants to be reconciled with. He has used the hated press and media to his own ends; to spill family secrets that royals would have preferred to remain private, and to promote his book which surprise, surprise, has zoomed to number 1 in the Amazon bestseller list (after all, he has to earn money now). Waterstone’s opened at midnight yesterday to cope with the rush of people eager to buy ‘Spare’. Yes, I’ve bought a copy but I didn’t queue up at midnight – Amazon delivered it. It’ll give me something to do apart from my WIP, because there’s not much work on at the moment. I’ll review it when I’ve read all 407 pages.
I’ve only read a few pages so far, but as a ‘for instance’ regarding telling the truth, Harry talks about a well-known journalist. He changes the letters of her name around to spell ‘Rehabber Kooks’ obviously to avoid litigation, but even I know who that is. Apparently there was a photo of Harry attending a rehab centre as part of his working day, but in order to sell newspapers she twisted the story around so the headlines read that Harry was now attending rehab. He also tried to get away by working on a remote Australian farm for a year (which he enjoyed), but the press eventually found him (he calls them ‘ants’ and says that once one ant finds him then many more will arrive) and he knew they would not leave him alone and so had to leave.
It’s quite alarming the amount of vitriol this book has generated on Goodreads. It was only published yesterday but it already has 465 one-star ratings from people who have written terrible comments about a book they probably haven’t even bought or are likely to read. The overall rating on Goodreads is now 3.21 (yesterday it was 2.86). WTF? The bloke is obviously hated by many people for trying to set the record straight.

Somehow I don’t think Harry’s father and brother will be rushing to Montecito; Harry is going to have to work hard to win back favour. Now that we all know who said what and who did what, H and M need to bring some kind of closure to the whole thing and enjoy living their lives in California with their children. If Charles and William want to welcome H and M back with open arms, then the ball is in their court. I expect much water needs to pass under the bridge to allow tempers to cool and maybe for Harry to finally come to terms with the death of his mother and his hatred of the press. Still… at least he hasn’t been consorting with known paedophiles…there may be hope for him yet.
N.B: ‘Spare’ sold 400,000 copies yesterday, and has become the fastest-selling non-fiction book of all time. Yesterday I sold just 2 copies of my own books, but I’d still rather have my life than his and have the freedom to go where I want and do what I want in complete anonymity.
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I watched the Netflix series and saw two interviews with Harry. He was sadly neglected as a child with an emotionless father. As a young boy Harry needed therapy to deal with the ginormity of it all and didn’t get it. The press is absolutely brutal, and I realize Harry wants to defend himself, but as a memoir writer myself, I am very careful not to villainize people publicly. I definitely think there was too much laundry aired that will no doubt, add to the mess of relations. But I also think, H and M surely milking it all great with the media coverage they’ve sought out to get for their story. I’ll wait a long time for a sale before I’ll pay $50 for ANY book. 🙂 xx
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Fifty dollars? Wow, that’s more expensive than here. Yes, he was emotionally starved, and the only person apart from his wife who ever showed him any warmth was his mother. Charles had to shake his mother’s hand aged 4 after meeting her again after a long tour; no wonder he couldn’t show any love either. x
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It’s all so sad 😦 x
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Yes. x
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Wow. i don’t think i will rush out and buy the book.
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It’s not for everyone.
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I’m reading it now and have empathy for Harry and Meghan. They can’t seem to catch a break. He didn’t ask to be born a Royal and she certainly didn’t ask to be ridiculed unmercifully by the British Press. They’re doing the best they can. They have to earn a living and Harry will make money on this book. I hope they find happiness.
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Me too. So many people hate them for speaking out.
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He knew what the job was before he was out of diapers. His father is a supercilious narcissist, his grandpa was an ass, his grandmother, perhaps the last to take her role seriously. HIs brother and Kate put on their uniforms and wave, Kate keeping an iron arm’s distance. Harry and Meg, regardless of the finger pointing, are in it for the $. Sadly neither he nor his mother were cut out for the job. Sadder still that they all seem happy as pigs in shit to live high and tsake themselves seriously. It’s vocational theater at this point, none of them can wlk out the front door and holler “Off with their heads!” They’re the Kardashians with expensive educations.
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What gets me is that it was automatically assumed he’d go to Sandhurst and thereby eventually command a platoon, even though he admits he’s not academic. I thought only the best brains went to Sandhurst?
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Depends on who your parents are. Over here movie stars bribe somebody to get their kid in a posh school.
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Oh yes, I expect there’s plenty of that going on over here too. Somebody I once worked with had a job in a posh private school. She said some of the teachers were sleeping with the students. I guess it was ever thus.
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I have no interest in the royals, and certainly won’t be watching any interviews or buying books. (My wife watched the long interview, and her sympathies are with Harry) As for money, his wife was worth an estimated $12 million when they married, and it is suggested that Charles gave him up to £5 million, plus some annual allowance, when he left the UK. If that’s not enough to live on, then I don’t know what is.
The only positive for me in all of this is the exposure of the royals for what they truly are.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yes, from what I’ve read they seem a cold-hearted bunch. No wonder he misses his mother.
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That last paragraph says it all, Stevie…
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Indeed. Due to an accident of birth he’s got few places to run to.
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He will live to regret it all, I think…
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