I thought I wouldn’t have time to do any more reviews this year, but due to having a lack of Internet yesterday afternoon for a couple of hours, I did that real old-fashioned thing while the BT engineer was running about like a headless chicken …
READING!
Yes, I finished D.G Kaye’s book Twenty Years: After “I Do”: Reflections on Love and Changes Through Aging. Here’s my review below of this recommended 5 star read:
Amazon Book Blurb:
In this personal accounting, D.G. Kaye shares the insights and wisdom she has accrued through twenty years of keeping her marriage strong and thriving despite the everyday changes and challenges of aging. Kaye reveals how a little creative planning, acceptance, and unconditional love can create a bond no obstacle will break. Kaye’s stories are informative, inspiring, and a testament to love eclipsing all when two people understand, respect, and honor their vows. She adds that a daily sprinkling of laughter is a staple in nourishing a healthy marriage.
Twenty years began with a promise. As Kaye recounts what transpired within that time, she shows that true love has no limits, even when one spouse ages ahead of the other.
Stevie’s Review:
D.G Kaye bares her innermost thoughts and feelings after 20 years of marriage to her soul mate Gordon, a man 20 years her senior. Gordon is suffering the effects of ageing and the aftermath of prostate cancer treatment.
The author writes with some candour in this short but informative self-help/memoir of several mindfulness strategies she employs to keep her marriage as fresh as the day she said “I do”. These strategies can be used by any couple regardless of their ages, and indeed I aim to take a leaf out of this book to aid my own 37 year marriage!
It is a treat to read of the author’s successful marriage, despite her initial doubts (due to Gordon’s age) at the start of the relationship plus many hardships and health scares of both parties along the way. D.G Kaye and her husband laugh a lot, look after each other, and take heed of their marriage vows. Many younger couples could learn from this recommended 5 star read.
Connect with D.G Kaye:
Author, https://www.amazon.com/author/dgkaye7
Email: d.g.kaye.writer@gmail.com
Website: http://www.dgkayewriter.com
Wiseintro: wiseintro.co/dgkaye7
paulandruss said:
This a very insightful review Steve and one I think Debby will be over the moon with. For me you captured what I think Debby is all about: not big over blown gestures but the day to day laughter with each other and little acts of consideration, kindness, friendship, and love given mutually without a second thought. As you say are small practical tips that every couple could use to enrich their relationship- a recipe for success.
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Stevie Turner said:
Absolutely. If more couples read this book and acted on it I’m sure there would be fewer divorces.
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Smorgasbord - Variety is the Spice of Life. said:
Reblogged this on Smorgasbord – Variety is the spice of life and commented:
Debby Gies D.G. Kaye continues to receive terrific reviews for her latest book Twenty Years: Before “I Do” This one is from Stevie Turner .. please head over and check it out.
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Stevie Turner said:
Thanks for the re-blog!
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Colleen Chesebro said:
Thanks for sharing and reading Debby Gies new book. It sounds amazing with great advice for all marriages. ❤
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Stevie Turner said:
Thanks Colleen, yes it is a great book.
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Marje @ Kyrosmagica said:
A lovely review of Debby’s new book. Merry Christmas. 🙂
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Stevie Turner said:
And to you too! Thanks for your comment.
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dgkaye said:
Thank you so much Stevie, for reading, reviewing and sharing here on you blog (oh and for you know what, lol). I’ll be sharing your review on my blog next week. I’m so happy to learn what you took from my book. Thank you again and wishing you a beautiful Christmas. ❤
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Stevie Turner said:
Merry Christmas Debby. x
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dgkaye said:
Thank you Stevie 🙂 xx
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Tina Frisco said:
A lovely review, Stevie. I like that you added younger couples could benefit from reading Deb’s book. I hope your holidays are joyous and peaceful ❤
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Stevie Turner said:
Thanks Tina. Happy Christmas to you too.
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balroop2013 said:
What a quick read and an inspiring review Stevie. Thanks for sharing. 🙂
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Stevie Turner said:
Thanks for your comment Balroop.
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Natalie Ducey said:
Thanks for sharing, Stevie!
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Stevie Turner said:
Happy Christmas!
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Darlene said:
A great review of Debbie’s book. I just wish I had more time to read. Perhaps if I lost my internet!! Enjoy your Christmas Stevie!
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Stevie Turner said:
Ha ha, you too Darlene!
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